Untangle Tangled Towels is a fun energizer that challenges pairs to untangle themselves from a tricky knot without letting go of their towels. It’s perfect to get people moving, laughing, and collaborating.
Running the activity:
- Split participants into pairs.
- Give each pair two small towels (or cords, scarves).
- Ask them to interlock the towels:
- Each person holds one towel by both ends.
Thread one towel through the other so they are linked together.
- Challenge the pairs: Without letting go of the towels, untangle yourselves so each person is holding just their own towel again.
- Encourage creative twists, turns, and movements. Set a timer for 3 minutes.
There is no solution to untangle! End by saying something like:
“Not every problem has a solution. Sometimes it’s not possible to untangle all the knots—like the one you faced here. Instead of wasting energy on trying to fix the mess, focus on working with it as it is. Learn to live with the knots.”
Disclaimer:Be aware that some people might feel frustrated because they couldn’t find a solution. Others may claim they did, but in reality, they probably used a trick or workaround. This makes it even more important to close the activity well in your final step.
This activity is meant to highlight that some knots—or situations—simply aren’t solvable. The goal isn’t to resolve them but to help participants recognize when it’s wiser to adjust their approach and work with the complexity, rather than fight against it.
Group size: Works fine for any group size, as long as you have enough towels (or cords) for everyone. Work in pairs.
I discovered this energizer when it was trending on TikTok (check out this link to see lots of people trying it). It became popular for its surprising challenge and the laughter it sparks as pairs twist, turn, and try to untangle themselves. Once, I ran this activity during a large conference, and instead of using towels, we used the conference bags. Be creative, have fun!
Remote team advice: This energizer works best in person. It requires physical interaction with towels (or cords), so it is not suitable for remote settings.